self-soothing

Managing Your Nerves

by John Nolan
17th March 202523rd March 2025

Learning how to control nervousness involves a range of techniques, including focusing on slow, deep breathing to calm the body, shifting attention away from worried thoughts to the present moment, developing self-soothing activities, thorough preparation for potentially nerve-wracking situations, accepting feelings of nervousness without judgment, and seeking support from trusted individuals. Consistent practice of these strategies can empower you to manage nervousness more effectively in various situations.

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Sensory Pathways to Healing: The Rise and Integration of Psychosensory Therapy31st March 2025
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