nervousness

Addressing Nervousness: Insights from Your Sources

by John Nolan
23rd March 2025

Nervousness involves a complex interplay of mental and brain processes. Mentally, negative self-talk, cognitive biases, overthinking, unhelpful interpretations, and rigid thinking contribute significantly. Neural pathways involving the cortex and amygdala play key roles in initiating and maintaining the physiological and cognitive aspects of nervousness. Reducing the impact of these thought patterns involves increasing self-awareness, challenging and reframing negative thoughts, using more flexible language, focusing on the present, altering the narrative around nervousness, practicing self-compassion, engaging in valued activities, and managing sensory input.

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Steps to Overcoming Dread: Calming Your Mind and Building Resilience with Self-Help Techniques29th March 2025
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Social Anxiety: Exploring Therapeutic Approaches28th March 2025
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Navigating Workplace Pressures: Strategies for Stress and Anxiety Management28th March 2025
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