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Empowering Change: Coaching as a Positive Force in Addressing Depression

by John Nolan
25th March 2025

Coaching for depression offers a valuable alternative or complementary approach to traditional therapies like CBT. By focusing on strengths, resources, and future goals, coaching empowers individuals to take action and build a more positive life. The integration of unique tools like the Havening Technique by coaches may offer additional avenues for managing emotional distress. While CBT traditionally delves into negative thoughts and past experiences to facilitate change, coaching prioritises increasing positive affect and creating a vision for the future. Both approaches aim to alleviate the suffering associated with depression, but they utilise different methodologies and emphases. The most suitable approach will often depend on the individual’s preferences, the specific nature of their difficulties, and their desired outcomes.

Empowering Change: Coaching as a Positive Force in Addressing Depression

by John Nolan
19th March 2025

The Guiding Influence of Values in Stress Management

by John Nolan
11th March 2025

Values play a fundamental and multifaceted role in effectively managing stress. They act as a compass, providing direction and meaning that can buffer against the negative impacts of stress. Here are the key ways in which values contribute to stress management: Providing a Sense of Purpose and Meaning: When individuals are clear about what is… Read More »The Guiding Influence of Values in Stress Management

Sensory Pathways to Healing: The Rise and Integration of Psychosensory Therapy31st March 2025
Psychosensory therapy, with origins in traditional practices and modern neuroscience, is increasingly effective in mental health by directly influencing neurobiological states through sensory input. Techniques like Havening, EFT, and EMDR target the amygdala and can facilitate the processing of trauma and reduce anxiety. These therapies offer rapid, gentle, and empowering approaches for issues such as panic attacks, phobias, PTSD, chronic pain, and addictions. Psychosensory therapy integrates well with future-oriented modalities like SFBT, coaching, and NLP by quickly reducing distress, fostering self-empowerment, and creating a more receptive state for change and goal achievement.
Embracing Experience: Understanding and Moving Beyond Avoidance30th March 2025
Experiential avoidance, the attempt to evade unwanted inner experiences, plays a significant role in various mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, stress, and trauma, leading to restricted lives and intensified distress. Overcoming this pattern involves cultivating awareness, acceptance, willingness, cognitive defusion, present moment contact, value clarification, gradual exposure, and self-compassion, enabling individuals to engage with a full range of experiences and move towards a more fulfilling life.
Steps to Overcoming Dread: Calming Your Mind and Building Resilience with Self-Help Techniques29th March 2025
Feelings of dread often involve activation of the brain's threat system (amygdala) and an overwhelmed cortex, accompanied by negative thinking patterns, anticipation of threat, and negative self-talk. To overcome dread, techniques such as CPR for the Amygdala (combining self-havening and brain games), self-havening alone, challenging negative self-talk, practising mindfulness and acceptance, focusing on solutions, ACT-based defusion, applied relaxation (breathing), cultivating self-compassion, and the LLAMP approach can be effective. These methods work by calming the nervous system, redirecting attention, creating psychological distance from negative thoughts, promoting self-acceptance, and shifting focus towards positive possibilities and values. Consistent practice and patience are key to building resilience and reducing the impact of dread.
Social Anxiety: Exploring Therapeutic Approaches28th March 2025
Social anxiety therapy offers a range of approaches beyond CBT and cognitive restructuring to help individuals manage their social anxiety. Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) focuses on future solutions and exceptions to the problem. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) emphasises accepting anxious feelings and committing to value-driven actions using techniques like acceptance, mindfulness, and defusion. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) aims to change thought and behaviour patterns through techniques like altering submodalities. Exposure Therapy involves gradual confrontation of feared situations. Social Skills Training focuses on improving social competence through modelling and feedback. Applied Relaxation teaches techniques to manage immediate anxiety symptoms. Mindfulness cultivates present-moment awareness. Compassion Focused Therapy promotes self-compassion. These therapies help by altering the individual's relationship with anxiety, fostering psychological flexibility, and building confidence in social situations. Successful use requires willingness, practice, a gradual approach where needed, and a supportive therapeutic relationship, leading to reduced anxiety, increased confidence, and improved quality of life.
Cultivating Resilience: Building and Maintaining Healthy Habits28th March 2025
Building healthy habits and breaking old ones are crucial for managing mental health issues like anxiety and depression. Creating new healthy habits involves starting small, being specific, linking to existing routines, focusing on positive outcomes, consistent practice, and self-compassion. Breaking old habits requires awareness of triggers, understanding underlying needs, replacement behaviours, and patience. Examples of beneficial healthy habits for mental well-being include mindfulness, exercise, good sleep, healthy eating, journaling, hobbies, time in nature, breathing exercises, self-compassion, social connection, and self-Havening (a form of CPR for the amygdala). Self-Havening can enhance other healthy habits by promoting calmness and emotional regulation. The timeframe for habit change varies, and consistency is more important than a specific duration. To maintain new habits, prioritise them, find accountability, visualise success, focus on progress, reflect on benefits, adapt if needed, and embrace the process.